More confused than ever

[woundedfool]

I know I want to save our M. I really do. I'm just afraid to admit that to you. I'm afraid to fall back into our old habits. I want to see that you are serious about making this work. I don't feel comfortable just telling you I'm willing to try after a week of you asking.

I would tell him exactly the above quote (I did change the quote a bit).

I think it is important that you need to have a marriage where he is happy, and you are happy and the entire unit is happy (maybe not sunshine and lollipops everyday, but at least not mad/sad/trapped).