I'm setting up GAL starting this Saturday, I need to stay as busy as possible to avoid dwelling on a anniversary that will most likey not be celebrated:( Monday may be really hard especially if H does not work that day.
I dont even know if a card left on his nightstand that morning will be seen as pursuit and or me not hearing or believing him when he BD last year.
Wearing my ring, does he see that as pursuit?
H did call me today about a purchase I wanted to make and he said since I also want furniture that we should go out looking for furniture and use the money towards that. This furniture would be in his man cave (basement).
What is this? Is he not planning to leave ever? Dose he think getting furniture will make me "happy"?
If he is sticking his head out of the tunnel, I know I need to be there, but not pursuit just let him know its ok?
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
