Wounded, as usual, has covered every, single thing I would have (and some things I wouldn't have) thought to contribute.
Awww... shucks Sorry to steal your thunder Train
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What made your H change his mind so quickly? That's anyone's guess.
I know you said its rhetorical... but I think it is worth pointing out: I don't really believe he changed his mind quickly. I want to credit TO because I believe quite a bit of his "quick turn" is because of TO, and the way she handled herself. I think TO started implementing things and heeding advice that made H's decision possible. The detachment, the giving up of control, changing the things she recognized she needed to changed, staying positive, acting as if, etc....
These things all had a positive effect of H's perception.
At the very least it created an olive branch he was able to grasp at.
Me: 43 M: 10y S:15 ILYBINILWY 2/18/13 W moved out 2/18/13 Filed for D: 2/17/13 Got DB: 2/20/13 Got DR: 2/23/13 180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13 D Final Dec '13
