Don't feel bad for your feelings right now it's impossible to kept your thoughts like mother Theresa all the time.

21 years is along time to have built a life together and then have someone throw it away. It hurts a lot on so many levels. Allow yourself to feel it

Sounds like d14 is just using this sitch to satisfy her teenage whimsy.

Focus more on yourself and your hobbies. You kids will also find you more attractive the more you are into your hobbies


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13