Unbelievable. I don't know how you are keeping such composure with ow. I loath the day I have to see hww. I don't even like to go to the store for fear of running into them. You are one classy lady. Seriously, I give you a lot of credit. I would not say you sound bitter. You are human and your feelings are totally being overlooked. Obviously you h, being in mlc, is not going to acknowledge them, but to say no one is hurt is annoying. I am glad you are not buying into his nonsense.
Reality will kick him in the rear-end when he is taking s wherever "he wants" and has to deal with s not wanting to be so accommodating. I am sick of these people and their disregard for their families. Sorry, now I sound bitter. I am just sorry he is being hurtful. That stinks.
I gotta give it to ya, though. You are handling it very well. I think what you said about seeing ow was perfect. The fact that your h says he does not respect you is laughable. You handled the sitch with her so respectfully! Well if he is finally being who he really is... that should make your detachment a little easier. Just keep that in mind through your tough times...