Not that I am in any way a vet, but it seems to me that the people who did that were in situations with a lot greater conflict than you or I have had. Train and T0324 both had H's who really put the screws to them financially and were truly cruel personally, so they had to seriously stand up for themselves for the entire experience just to get by.

That said, I wish I had initially taken a MUCH harder line with my H last year. It's too late to take that path now, though, so I'm going to have to go with slow and steady and hope that it leads to a more lasting marriage at the end.

Lesson learned...


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.