Ok, just throwing it out there.

Should I ignore the fact that it is my W Birthday today?

If I acknowledge it should it only be in the form of a verbal "Happy Birthday" alone or maybe a Card?

If I don't see her should I just chalk it up to I didn't see you to wish you a "Happy Birthday" and let it go or would a little note on the counter be in order?

She doesn't talk to me much but I still feel like I want to be nice because that is type of person I am.

If we didn't live together I wouldn't be asking this question and would not wish her a "Happy Birthday" probably but since she is still here I feel a little obligated. She did call me for my Birthday back in November and we weren't living together then.

Thoughts?


Me 47/W 34
T 16 M 13
No kids
BD 6/2013
W asked that I move out 6/2013
I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013
separate beds not much talking
Served D Complaint 5/2014
W moved out 9/27/2014