Hey u -turn buddy its all good if shes questioning things . You are doing alright . Shes giving you hugs . My W doesnt even want to touch me . The worst of it is , i think she wants to but shes so messed up shes trying to hate me to justify all this . Its really terrible , i can forgive her but can she forgive herself . So Im sure your wife is the same as mine . If they could forgive them selves for what they ve done and they know we are forgiving them , then i believe , truly believe that they would come back to us whole . Put your self in her shoes and look at the situation shes in . I bet you would feel alot of shame and guilt especially when your spouse is willing to forgive and is still showing that much love . So that being said , how would you deal with the guilt and shame if it was you ???? Give me an answer on this , im interested in what you think . Dawgy
Me 45 W 45 Son 16 Son 14 Married 23 together 27 W threatened sep several times W still at home A discovered Mar 17 2014 A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )
