How to Proceed

[getrite]

So, weird day today. She texted me in the morning if she could keep my last name during the divorce. I asked her if her mind was made up, she said yes. I then said, look, we are separated so you can work on yourself and I can work on myself, then we will see where we are at. She said that she does not think we can work it out (she should have said that she does not think she can work it out, I am willing.) I told her again that we are working on each other separately. She said, ok, she would not push the divorce issue.

I had to stop by to print some stuff out for a passport application. I left, then needed to go back to get some checks. When I was there, she was sitting on the bed, I kissed her on the head, then she brought her head up for a kiss, so I kissed her. She said we shouldn't, but the look in her eye said differently. She said that she is still physically attracted to me, its just the other stuff she is having a hard time with. So, we had sex. She told me "I hate you" while we were having sex. So, when we were done, she said we should not have done it. I kissed her, told her I loved her, put on my clothes and left. She just laid there thinking. I am not going text or call her for the rest of the day. I am going to leave her to her thoughts.

I do not know what is going on in her head, she seems confused about what she wants. Can anyone give me guidance on what to do now?