Wife having emotional affair part 2

[3kids]

HS, thank you I needed that. More then you'll ever know! That is kind of what I've been doing. Finding out what I was missing in the relationship that he is providing. That seems to be listening and listening. Being there for her on an emotional level. She is entering into a very stressful time of her life. She starts full time nurseing school on Monday. Has to figure out a work schedual that fits in there when she is not at school. To support her needs and the kids needs. She also has to figure out a schedual for her to spend time with the kids (who will be last on her priority list) and get them to and from school and activities. He can't provide that for her. I am working very hard on improving my skills as far as relationships go. With the whole world.

Thank you so much for taking the time!

What I do know about this guy. Is he has never been married at the age of 38. Close once. Has no kids. Is a silver tongue player according to friends and family. His own personal family does not like him. Except for his mother. Witch by the way would move in with the two of them if they got a place with them. Witch the wife is not looking forward to. Because she would be the person to give her care while she is going to school. Apperently they have already broken up once. There is a ton of red flags about this guy from what my MIL has told me. He is a musician in a band. Works as a stuwardest on a plane in Alaska. Very spontaneous person. May have a seperate life going on in Alaska.