Originally Posted By: GoatGal
Pilot,

And at 5 ' 7" and just under a "buck-twenty", I guess I qualify as "willowy" now. Blonde... but not dumb!


Fog so thick its like I am swimming!!


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Rayzzz probably looks super hot in a wig and a Batman costume, playing a Ukulele.


Fog cleared!! smile


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Who knows what they're really like, but I think we can all agree, they are a balm for the old ego!!!!


You are right. But then again, any next real relationship would be after what we have all been through.
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I had an interesting, ego-stroking exchange with the young guy behind the meat counter at the grocery store today.


Without quoting the whole story.... awesome GoatGal! It almost read like the beginning plot to an adult film when I first started reading it! haha. I am glad you had that experience because I do know what it can do to self esteem after being treated like your H treats you. I bet you will be having beef tonight. (ok, that sounded bad after I typed it)
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There are great people everywhere.
If our S's don't come around, I think the people here will do just fine in the end.


Absolutely. I am not worried about the long term for me, or for most of the people here. As you said, we are all getting our sh1t together in a way which only makes us better suited for our next relationship regardless if it is with our spouses.

Thank you so much for spending your time writing on my forum GGG. It really is nice knowing you and the others here take a moment out of their day to give a little pep talk when one is needed.

Thanks to all!!!


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16