Dealing with ongoing affair -which may now be over

[dawgy]

Peter in no way would i discount what Wonka is saying but i totally agree with writing the letter of apology for that incident if she said it may help . Now I dont see this as bootlicking ( lol how do you like that analogy ? ) I see it as something she genuinely wants you to be sorry for and if it takes a letter to make it sincere to her then you should . It doesnt matter if it was two weeks ago or ten years ago , if she remembered it and carried it for that long then it is important to her . What you did is in no way an excuse for her having an affair but it obviously was traumatic for her to remember it . Good job my friend on picking up on that . Some others may think different but this is my take onit. Dawgy