Hi maybell, I hear you on how challenging patience can be.

Just about the only two things that work for me come from the 12 steps: "Let Go and Let God" and the Serenity Prayer.

Much love,
Db

Me: 39 - W: 35
Together: 2 years, no kids
My Affair: 1.5 years
Affair ended: 4/9/14
Affair revealed: 5/19/14
Last Contact: 8/2/14