Originally Posted By: MLP
I worry about being nice and friendly as showing consent, too.

I think the key to this is, it doesn't matter if we consent or not. The other person is free to do as they please, it doesn't require our consent.

When we let go of thinking we can control others, life gets so much easier.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss