Pretty good. I'm getting into much better shape. Weight loss will get moving again with the routine of the school day on not constant access to the kitchen.

Excited to start playing soccer and meeting a whole new group of people.

My most current puzzle is how much to do in trying to woo my W. I don't want to beg, plead, pursue in the pathetic way, and I don't want to just start jumping into R talks. That said, I think it might be time to do some work on winning back her heart.

We've achieved friendly, constant D talk has slowed a lot. She texts and calls a lot more now. Still mostly about kids, but much more small talk and telling me about her day.

All of that and her text last night make me think I should begin "courting" her. Probably subtly at first.

Romance has never been in my skill set, so I've got work to do on creating those feelings. Not looking for over the top. Just want to see if I can create a spark or two w/out being obvious.


Me: 34 W:33
T: 10 M: 6
S: 6 D: 5
BD: 5/14
Still together(ish)
Not giving up: 7/14
D talk has slowed, a lot.
Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms.
Slow and Steady wins the race.