Originally Posted By: Joe1981
Sorry labug, that was a response to Spacey, your post came in as I was typing, I think.

The part you quoted was about her plans if our Son doesn't get to go to a different school than the son of the OW I was hanging around in May and June. Lots more details on that stuff up thread.

Spacey: the Mets won.

The good news, my son gets to go to the nicer school, closer to my work and away from the OW's son. Now, I know this solves nothing, but it does remove what my W viewed as a deal breaker in our chances of piecing.

As labug said, I've still got a lot to do, and more changes to make/make permanent.

I know I've got a long road ahead still and it's going to plenty bumpy, I'm sure. At least the giant boulder is off of it now.


I just needed more detail on the whys of the school issue being a dealbreaker. It wasn't a crazy whim on her part, she has good reasons for not wanting her son in the same school as OW's son.

Thanks for filling in the blanks. You seem to be doing OK. How do you feel about your progress?

Last edited by labug; 08/21/14 02:52 PM.

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