Things have been peaceful, but not great right now. Ok is a good descriptor.

As I said earlier, we got past the huge obstacle of where our son goes to school. So she no longer has the urge to bolt immediately anymore.

I think now she's just trying to decide what she wants. I'm not try to mind read, but I am trying to evaluate progress.

Last night she texted: "It's weird that we just avoid each other"
My response: "I don't avoid you. I'm giving you space. I'm not trying to be all up in your business. "
W: Gotcha
Me: I'd be happy to spend time w/ you.

Thoughts?

Me: 34 W:33
T: 10 M: 6
S: 6 D: 5
BD: 5/14
Still together(ish)
Not giving up: 7/14
D talk has slowed, a lot.
Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms.
Slow and Steady wins the race.