I thought maybe I was on moderation again...since I haven't been on for so long. My apologies. I am not demanding...just looking for advice. Don't have too many people to ask in my circle.
I would love for it to be something else but the reason I came to the conclusion is because it is all too familiar.
He was back at the bar where the OW works and she was working that night AND he was drunk with no wedding ring on. Sitting with a group of people. She was working. He never came home that night. I am sure because I went into the bar...but in my mind I had to. Otherwise he would have lied his way out of it.
I don't want to be D but i will not tolerate another A. I do have an appt with L coming up soon. I will file. This adds to some of the urgency. I asked him to come up with a really good plan or its done. If he can't or won't put that effort in then why should I bother two times around.
My question is...what is considered a good enough "plan" ??
