It is so strange how so many of these stories are so similar; like one could just copy and past from other threads and just change job and location details to have it describe our situations perfectly.
You are absolutely right Casey. And this is where the real value of this forum comes into play. It is reading the stories of people who are 2 steps ahead of you. See what they did right and what they did wrong. And how things turned out for them. Not a perfect science, but definitely has value.
I called my FIL today and spoke with him briefly. I asked him if he would be angry if I went ahead and divorced his daughter like she asked for. I told him I was just tired. He understood and said he would not be angry and said it is between my W and I. He would be sad, but he would understand and knows that I tried.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
