That's a good tip, Ss - I'm going to give that a try. I just feel like there are so many bombs he could drop on me that any communication is potentially fraught and I'm going to need to be in a good state of mind to deal with them. Trouble is, I'm just not right now.


M - 34
H - 36
Together 10 years
Married 4 years
BD - March, 2014