Hi all! So NC is not for me apparently. My H texts me every day! While in an ideal world I would not reply, logistical reasons kind of dictate that I should respond.
He has stuff at my house. He wants his stuff I guess.
So this afternoon he simply texts me "are you going to be home tonight?"
I assume that is because he wants to pick something up. So I said "I'll probably be home later unless I get lucky".
What a stupid question. Will you be home tonight? No, I am going to sleep in the street. Why not just say "can I come by later at 8pm to get my ...?" Why does it matter whether I will be home or not. What does "tonight" mean anyway? 6pm? 9pm?
While I thought about not responding at all to this dumb question, I have had enough of his nonsense. I have always loved the saying "if you ask a stupid question you will get a stupid answer".
So I gave a stupid answer.
Do you want to see me? Is that why you are asking if I will be home? Do you want to pick up your stuff? Then just say what time you are coming and I'll say yes or no.
He replied to my text with "haha. Do you have a date?" To which I did not reply.
And he didn't come by the house to get his stuff (he has a key).
WHAT THE HELL DOES HE WANT FROM ME?
If he wants his stuff, why not just say that and come get it? If he wants to see me, why not just say that? What does he want?
Yes, thank you I know I replied in an immature and stupid way. But I don't care.
Hope you all are having a good one. I had a stressful day and an entertaining night. Hugs, Lisa
