Wait a slow cotton pickin' time, Peter....isn't what your W is still stuck on 10 years on??!! That is what's causing her pain now??! That's her pretext for exiting the M and getting involved with OM?

Ya serious about that??

I cannot wrap this around my head over an incident that took place 10 years ago....

Why are you apologizing over this one incident? There has to be more than just that one to make W feel the need for you to write an apology letter to her. I cannot help but wonder at your W's motivation or agenda in having you write the apology letter. Just so you can suffer some more if the letter doesn't satisfy her.

Something's off here, Peter. Hope I am wrong.