Back in 2004 when we were first dating and you were at my place, I got a phone call that my ex was coming over to drop some stuff off for the kids or something. I did not want my ex meeting you at that point, as she was at the time being very unreasonably and had a gift for twisting things to her own advantage, so in order to protect myself from the potential vitriol from my ex I had asked you if you could leave my house for a half hour while I dealt with the ex. I realize now that that made you feel that you were less important to me than my ex was and that caused you long lasting pain.
My intention was only to protect myself from another potential psychological attack from my ex. In no way did I intend to hurt you or make you feel unimportant to me. I was going through a rough time in my divorce and acted selfishly in that regard. I will make every effort not to exhibit that type of behaviour again. I am working to improve my ability to empathize and be more considerate of the feelings of those I love.
I sincerely regret my actions that day, and wish I could turn the clock back and stand my ground against my ex, exhibiting the true pride I felt of having you by my side. I would like to make amends for that inconsiderate act if you could let me know how I could achieve that.
Please forgive me for my inconsideration and selfishness.
Love Your H
M: 59 W: 53 M: 9 yrs T: 14 yrs No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine) W moved out 11/18/2013 D-Day 12/14/2013 W moved back home 12/1/2014
