Well folks. I need to realize you can't have a conversation with h....right now.....perhaps ever.

He asked when we were going to start the everything other Saturday night thing. I said I was open to suggestions he said a date and I said that's fine. I do *realize* you can't have a conversation over text. However, I thought I would perhaps lay a little foundation? Probably a bad move. See below:

Me-h, the safety and well being of the children is our top priority. I hope that we both consider things carefully before introducing them to new people.

H-what are you implying? When the children are under my care, they are my ONLY concern and OUR children will NEVER be introduced to *NEW* people.

M-great! That's nice to hear.

And that's all for now. H doesn't pay any attention to the children when he's around them (this isn't mind reading-it's overt ). I assume him saying they are his only concern when he has them makes him feel better. He never looks up from his phone per the children. Not to mention how ridiculous it is to assume the children will never meet new people. I have a very difficult time communicating with crazy so I must rethink how to approach this.



3 kids
BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. )
Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style
D final 9-9-14
"Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer