Ss the prob I run into is my W does not want the M to work. So telling her she needs to make changes would go nowhere. She is not working on the M I am. So I can only work on myself. If the day comes she wants to work on it THEN I can say she needs to work on herself.


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16