Ss the prob I run into is my W does not want the M to work. So telling her she needs to make changes would go nowhere. She is not working on the M I am. So I can only work on myself. If the day comes she wants to work on it THEN I can say she needs to work on herself.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16