Just curious, Pilot, have you made it clear to W that you don't want your W back as they are? Have you said that she needs to make changes and discoveries in order to have a successful marriage? I'm curious how that works. My H wants me to make all these changes (that I'm not against, they would be GOOD and I am working on them) even though he doesn't believe I can make them or that I have made some. I am realizing only NOW that if this M were to continue, he'd need to make some serious changes, too. I'm not sure if I should say that. Now is probably NOT the time though.
