I was doing so good

[Bunches]

Dawgy, I sympathize. She pushes your buttons because its how she in un happy but if she gets a reaction she gets to feel right and justified. You have to focus on detaching from what she says and having no reaction to it all. I know, it seems impossible. And to do it completely might be. But you can try. Also, remember expectations come in all sizes. She told you she was going to move out and you built fear based on the expectation that it was going to happen. It might / it might not, you can't know and expecting it will only wind you up needlessly. My W wanted D back in Nov. 13 and pushed that hard for months to get it done quickly. Now I haven't heard anything about the D in 4 months. The story changes constantly in a lot of cases.