I hear you. That is why I am confused. A lot of what she does makes me believe that it has ended but I really do not know. What if the sitch is that she is still in contact with the OM but not admitting to it still. What would you advise for my actions and behavior during the vacation?

Last edited by shodan; 08/20/14 03:56 PM.
Me: 40, W: 40
M: 15, T: 18
D - 10, S - 7
D announcement 6/7/2014
A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W)
Still living together and sharing same bed