I'm cleaning out closets and I just found a Canada Hockey jersey. He and OW had a bet during the Olympics. He lost, so he had to wear a Canada jersey to work one day. I told him after he wore it I was going to burn it.
He gave it to me the day after he wore it, and said, "You know...these are expensive. You might want to try to sell it."
I should try to sell it, but I'm afraid of the vitriol I'd spew all over ebay. Blood money, for sure. It would feel better to burn it.
OM is not a good guy. I will concede that he's probably a very broken guy. He's leaving behind a family, too - right? OW, in my case, has been involved with a married guy before my H, and had gotten married TWO MONTHS before she started her thing with my H. The first man she was involved with got divorced. She didn't end up with him (SHOCKER!). The fact that she's gotten involved with not one, but TWO married men by the time she was 30 is so flipping awful. The fact that she has lied and lied and lied and lied to her H (as of June, every conversation that she'd had with her H she claimed that she and my H were just friends.)
But then I stop and I realize that that is truly the sign of a broken individual. Really, really broken. Seriously - where is her moral compass? And does my H really think he can have a sustainable relationship with a person who is that much of a liar? Who is willing to hurt the people that she claims to love the most THAT MUCH (and ps - that includes my H...whom she knows is risking a TON to be involved with her)? Does he really WANT to be involved with someone who can lie so easily to her H, her parents, and her friends? The day he dropped the bomb on me he told me, "I trust her." Wow. That's crazy. Because based on everything you've told me about her, she is not a trustworthy individual.
