Thanks everyone. I need opinions. As I've mentioned, I've never uttered a peep about OW. I wouldn't really know what to say anyway:-). However, as a result of that, OW's dad is an issue. As I've mentioned, he relinquished his medical license due to multiple allegations of inappropriate behavior with minors. I have consulted with attorneys, and feel I need to reiterate this is not acceptable to h. Although I doubt h will be parading the kids around, he could get a wild idea to show OW and her sleazy mom and elderly dad how lovely the kids are.

Do I wait until after d is final 9-9? Do I mention it now?

H, the safety and well being of he children is paramount. Please know that the children will not be near OW's dad due to allegations.

Something like that? I'm all ears. :-)



3 kids
BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. )
Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style
D final 9-9-14
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