WAW not admitting to affair #3

[shodan]

So I could use some advice...my w gets here on vaca later today, we will be together until Tuesday. I know my W had an A but she has not admitted to it. Also i am not sure whether it has ended or not. She has warmed up to me in the last two weeks, emailing and texting me rather than the opposite. I want to continue to show her a safe environment to which she can return. I also want to be fun and act "as if" but I still want to keep some space and not pursue her.

Therefore how do I act when we are on vacation for one week together? Like friends, be friendly? Do I "ignore" her and just focus on the kids? If I go to the bar for a drink do I ask her if she wants one or is that pursuing? If she wants to talk about stuff (not the R) do I engage or should I be more curt to shoe her that she could be losing me?

Train I sense that you had a similar issue with your H except he had admitted to the A and was talking about ending it when you were on vacation. What was your approach? Friendly? Kid focused? Curt?

Lots of love for everyone