Hi Maybell, Just wanted to say I'm so sorry you are having to deal with all these issues on your own. It must be so tough. H's can be so selfish. For what it's worth, I think you are doing an amazing job and seem to be a really strong person. No wonder you lost it with h, anyone would do the same in a similar situation. I am furious with my h as he is away for a weeks vacation with the ow, he never told anybody (only that he'd be gone for a few days), and he's missing yet another important hospital appointment for s18.
Sometimes I feel if I continue to be nice and friendly with him he will take this as a sign I am okay with his current situation?
take care of yourself x
Me - 44 Husband - 47 D20, S18 BD - Aug 2013 Moved out - Jan 2014 OW discovered Jan 2014