things were going pretty well detaching and she seemed to be responding well . Talkative involved with our family etc . Then just in the last four or five days shes clammed up , very distant and shes showing it in front of the boys . It pisses me off , shes so selfish . Ive been very forgiving but man shes pushing me . I think shes totally negative on us . Its terrible , all the good times , the laughs our life . Shes treating it with such disrespect . She could still be nice and civil and still want to leave . She doesnt have to be mean , negative , snarky . I just dont get why she is being like this . Shes making the whole process very uncomfortable .


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )