I apologize if you have already addressed this on one of your threads. Would your husband be receptive to going to counseling for the sole purpose of setting up a more mutually beneficial co-parenting plan? I was considering this (outside of MC) myself - just because the communication with H is non-existent right now. Maybe a neutral third party pointing out some more reasonable expectations for him might help (and poke him into being a little less selfish) and would ease your parenting burden right now.
