I see you've been on roller coaster quite a bit. W- good, bad. D - mother?father? (obviously not comfortable being put in position to choose. very hard for children regardless of whether upset w/parent or not) IRS ...
I agree with Shining, mleigh4. I think that since your W is 'all over the place' that your need some structure re: her.
These MLCers are 'chameleons' - it's hard to keep up with their changing moods & emotions. In sitch(s) where order or some sort of structure is possible, it may be a good idea to implement since there is little else you can control with them.
Take care, p.
pbetra ---- M: 15 yrs (in 2014) BD: 6/03/2014 Infidelity ('known' from July 2014) Denied PA Feb 2015 2 leave Mar 2015 (left early Summer). Some contact. Back briefly 2017 (after family death) Separated 2017
