Patience dawgy, try not too read too much into everything.

Evaluate what you've been doing and try to see what is and isn't working. Then stay out of the cheeseless tunnels.

Me: 34 W:33
T: 10 M: 6
S: 6 D: 5
BD: 5/14
Still together(ish)
Not giving up: 7/14
D talk has slowed, a lot.
Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms.
Slow and Steady wins the race.