Lisa,
Good to remember that. As 25yearsmlc 2x4ed me on earlier, just look at the timeline on some of the success stories around here. You're at just past 2 months, I'm at like 3 1/2...we're still both, barring some major luck, probably only just beginning our journey.

Try to remember that what you're doing is for you, no matter what happens w/ the M.

Stay strong. Which you are, so that shouldn't be too hard.

Me: 34 W:33
T: 10 M: 6
S: 6 D: 5
BD: 5/14
Still together(ish)
Not giving up: 7/14
D talk has slowed, a lot.
Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms.
Slow and Steady wins the race.