Pilot you are so right about similarities with sitch. My w was same way with relationship. I am convinced it is from low self esteem do to her R with father growing up. In fact when girls have this issue it's not if it will effect there relationships in a negative way but when. You sounds like things are fixable in your sitch. You get along well nothing jumps out like it's a done deal with m. Limbo isn't the best place to be but it has a purpose.
M 54 W 48 T 19 M 17 D 12 Twin S 6 Twin S 6 Ilybnilwy 1/26/14 A discovered 2/3/14 D filed 7/25/14 Sumons served 8/14/14