Part of me is telling myself What are you doing?! Don't rock the boat and make her mad, you will drive her away, and make her file for D!"
But the other part of me, that is growing stronger every day, is telling myself: Good for you. Sleep where you want to sleep. This is your house. You are a man who works hard and provides for his family. Sleep in the bed for crissakes.
HopeTex, I don't know what the vets will say on this one because I'm getting more confused about the subtleties of DBing without turning into a doormat (thanks to 25 for those clarifications) but your declarations of independence made me cheer.
You have every right to sleep in your bed. She is the one who has broken her vows. You were faithful, she was not. She has no right to push you out. I'm so glad you stayed.
You were not punishing her, she was welcome to sleep in the bed, too, but she chose not to. I don't know why I feel so glad for this little victory, but I do, probably because I wish I had some little victories in my life right now, too.
M:54, H:55 T:33, M:27 12/13 BD: EA 01/14 BD: PA, H leaves 03/14 H & OW break up 05/14 H says he will file for D 08/14 H initiates D 09/14 H wants to R 12/14 Still bungling our way through R
