I asked H to give me another example and he couldn't. H admitted that he had been reading my journals!! mad

I lost it...total backslide tonight and it's only going to get worse!

I did tell him that the past 4 months he hasn't really been a dad to them. I told him that I knew he needed space, but he wasn't hearing the frustration from the kids about him not being here. He said that he wants to make sure he is the best dad for them...his dad was not there for him.

We continued some back and forth and then I finally put a stop to it. I then asked him if there was anything else that he was hiding from me. He didn't say no, but didn't say yes either.

I confronted him about staying at his buddies house. He said that he was and I said not the whole time you've been gone. I told him I found the love note. He said that there was no one else. When I told him what it said, he told me they were no longer together...which I did say a few days ago that she was missing from the fb page. I was right on which person it was. Not sure how they hooked up, but I don't really want to know.

They had started seeing each other in April, when all this sh!t started going down! Don't know when it ended, but he claims no sex was involved.


Atsbaby
M:36 H:35
T: 19 M:12
S:11
D:9
BD: 5/4/14
Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her
8/19 admits OW
8/22/14 files D w/o telling me
9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile