Any advice? I am working on R with a WAW and settlement looms. I feel I have been where you are. I do not think talking to her about R and then her talk about D will make her dig her heals in. I would suggest reading DB again to help you focus on GAL and LRT. This is now about you. She will have to deal with her D later.
I hope my WAW sees what she is doing before the judge signs. We are at the settlement part too.
Best of luck. Hang in there.


Me43/WAW43..M 4y..S1 11/S2 4..Bomb2/2014..Dfile 5/2014..Settlement signed 8/20/14..D final 8/29/14
I moved out 10/10/14..WAW got D she wanted. I wanted R. No waiting,just no boundaries in her way.