First post - My WAH story

[pilot]

You are confused because you are afraid of making a mistake in your communication. We have all been there, especially after long periods of NC. Remember, NC is about getting your spouse out of a fog. You will not get your M back by staying NC forever.

You can reply something like "I'm great! Thanks for asking"

As for the library books, wth? A month late? Haha, make him pay the fine.

You can just reply 'Can you take the books back to the library? Not sure when I will have time this week'

Remember, he is asking the questions, not you. So it is not pursuing.