WAWs or Wayward M: How to SHOW change is afoot?

[DBinSF]

Ok, I'm reading Divorce Remedy. I've reread the Last Resort Technique and the whole chapter on Infidelity. A few things:

1) Last resort says no flowers and apologies. Infidelity Chapter says you can't apologize enough.

2) Page 140 says: Believe none of what you hear, and less than 50% of what you see. Your spouse will speak in absolute negatives because she is hurting and scared.

3) I'm not finding the "Letter of Last Resort" that I remember my DB coach telling me about a three years ago.

-DB