Ok, so if everything is by email then definitely put that PMA, GAL, and mystery on display. Because once he reads that email, he will be alone with his thoughts and those thoughts will be on what he just read. Remember, the thing people want most is what they cannot have. Us LBS got in our predicaments in large part because we were so sure we could not lose our S. And once BD hit, and we no longer had our S, we wanted them back more than anything in the world. And for many, the day before BD, they were probably not all that happy with their S at that point either.
So putting thoughts into your H mind that HE may end up losing you on your terms, not his, will definitely get those wheels turning in his mind. And even if nothing comes out of this interaction right away, it helps change the tone of interactions for the future.
Best of luck!!!
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16