Originally Posted By: GoatGal


Beatrice: Fragile is exactly it. He can't handle anything, really. He is a mess. I'm trying to manage my emotions, and I feel like I also have to handle his reactions.
He needs to learn how to manage his OWN emotions, but meanwhile he's all over the map and dealing with him is like being in a prizefight:
"Duck, dodge, right, left, uppercut---float like a butterfly, sting like a bee!" smile

I am trying to walk that fine line between encouragement, detachment, not pursuing, but being supportive and "safe". It's not easy. I don't want to be his therapist, but I always feel like I'm wearing my Therapist Hat.
"Say this, not that, actively listen, validate, feedback.... "



---GGG


H is actively trying to throw the a in my face via third parties, yet me being active on settlement and walking away is childish?

Mmmm he keeps trying to bait me, yet hasn't noticed I've walked away.

They cannot see why they have done anything hurt full. Period. Busted completely busted.

Last edited by Ggrass; 08/20/14 01:08 AM.

M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26