Mighty - your 2 posts from yesterday -- I could have written much of them myself. However, there is no baby on the way in my sitch, at least not one that I KNOW of! (I would NOT be surprised if there was.) Very similar though - H wants to be friends, and all that. We're just starting mediation now, after a year of separation. You seem to be doing extremely well. Keep up your good attitude.

I loved your post on GeorgiaBelle's thread, about taking our spouses for granted -- because WE were in it for the long haul, we also, naturally, expected our spouses to be in it 'til death do us part.' Truly - it made my day. Heck, it made my week. My counselor has never even said such a wise thing. THANK YOU.


Me 53, XH 57
M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids
BD June '13
H moved out July '13
Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14
H filed for D Nov. '14
D March '15