WOW. A few posts up ^^^ Mighty hit the nail on the head - about taking your spouse for granted, assuming they would always be there, because that's the way WE felt. I was never going anywhere. I married for life, and I thought H did too. I have blamed myself for taking him for granted for a year now. It is time to stop beating myself up about it. Thank God for this board. I don't know about you all, but it has been far more helpful to me than my IC sessions. Thank you Mighty for posting that thought. It's like the sun just came out. Hugs to all tonight. Hallelujah.
Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15
