The twins and I are off to their first swimming lesson today, one of he boys had a temp over night but other than a llittle grizzly today, seems to be ok.
boys dumped everything out of h wallet this morning, as I was putting it all back in, I noticed he had a pass for the snow, got momentarily thrown, in my mind I did the whole, 'we never went to the snow, it's not fair' and then I thought to myself, it's his life now, his choices and if I want to go to the snow I can, I don't have to feel jealous because he's gone. small 180, we'll actually not so small, old me would sulk and badger him about when he went and who with and why not with me.
small step forward for me.

family night tonight, as soon as boys are in bed, I'm headed home to do me things, name cards or at least get everything set up ready to get creative!