Sometimes it seems like we see winning the WAS back as a challenge without stopping to think whether we even want that person back. It's good that you are thinking about what you want and whether it is worth the continued effort. I know I sometimes have these same questions. The way he is acting now, nope I do not want him back. But I believe I do miss the H that I used to know.
Dating a bit might help you decide what you want and give you some perspective. But then you have the legal concerns that you mentioned. A difficult decision indeed.
