when I saw her today her face lit up, there where other flowers in her office and without me asking she told me who they where from...I wonder why she would just tell me that? any thoughts? so far still so good.
Don't think anything of it. She obviously was thrilled that people thought enough to congratulate her new job by sending flowers. When a woman doesn't voluntarily tell who sent the flowers, then there may be room for concern.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!